Don’t let someone take you out of character, who didn’t help you build it and can’t help you repair or restore it. I Learned this lesson, 3 years ago…it got ugly.I wasn’t myself. Now… I give myself ten minutes to be pissed, if I am really pissed 24hrs. I get upset. I may talk a little trash. I laugh about it, I may phone a friend, do a moment of silence and then I am done with it. Ain’t nothing worse than being all mad, and the person who made you feel that way, suddenly feels like they accomplished a worthy goal by getting you to care that much. Never give them the satisfaction. Life’s too short , I don’t wanna go to court!!!